This week I have been reading Sergei Kourdakov’s autobiography titled The Persecutor. After reading about eight chapters of the book I realized that Sergei had some major turning points in his life as a child. Between the disappearance of his Father and the death of his Mother and the adventures he had in the various children’s homes he lived in. In this essay I am going to talk about some major turning points in my life.
I Moved Countries
If you have been following my blog for a while or if you have read previous essays, you probably already know this story since I have written multiple essays about this topic already. If that is the case, feel free to move onto the next section.
I was born and raised in Stamford, Connecticut and up until my 10th birthday, I had my life planned around the fact that I would be staying in the US. Boy was I wrong. A month before my 10th birthday my parents told me we would be moving across the world to Singapore, the country where my Mom was born and raised.
For a 9 (almost 10) year old kid who had planned my whole life in Connecticut, this was world shattering. But after a while I got excited about the move and started counting down the days until we would pack up and leave.
I celebrated my 10th birthday with close family friends and two weeks later my parents and I left Connecticut for Singapore.
Despite my initial sadness about leaving my old home, I settled in quickly and made a ton of new friends. If I never left Connecticut I never would have met my amazing homeschool community and made friends with other children who homeschool.
I am pretty sure the Covid-19 pandemic was a turning point for everyone. Covid was, and still is, a huge bummer. At the time that I am writing this the Singapore government has implemented new regulations to try to lessen the sudden spike in cases. These regulations have basically put everyone back in lockdown.
Last year, when Covid first started, and Singapore entered our lockdown (aka circuit breaker or CB), all of my extracurricular activities were cancelled. My swimming and dance classes halted and it was impossible for me to meet up with my friends.
But despite Covid ruining everything, I am sort of thankful for Covid (NOT COMPLETELY! DO NOT THINK I LIKE ALL OF THIS! I DON’T!). If I never went into lockdown I never would have bonded with my two best friends. I bonded with a lot of other kids too, who, like me, were going insane because of being stuck inside for two months.
None of my lockdown friendships lasted after we went back to our somewhat normal routines. None of my friendships except two. The two that survived are now my two best friends who I love and cannot live without.
As you can see, in the past three years I have two major turning points in my life, each one resulting in new friends.
Thanks for reading!